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Common Cause of Marriage Problems

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Common Cause of Marriage Problems  Marriages usually start off nicely. Everyone cooperates-the couple, their parents, other relatives, and friends. Things usually run smoothly. But somewhere along the way, marital disputes come up. This is of course natural, but these can escalate to dangerous levels if not dealt with correctly. So we are mentioning some problems and provided tips on how to deal with them. 1. Money Couples argue over many things but money is by far one of the most frequent and serious. The solution is to discuss issues openly and consult within the family. For instance, the issue of a wife working outside the home can become a contentious one. This should preferably be discussed before marriage. Also, if she does decide to work and the husband agrees, does she want to contribute a certain portion to household expenses or will she keep all of the money for herself (which is her right)? One of the ways to avoid arguments about money is to simply make an...

Common Problems that Marriage Counselors Can Help

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 Common Problems that Marriage Counselors Can Help There are lots of reasons that couples may decide to seek help and get marriage counseling. There are some common themes that marriage counselors encounter when couples seek help for their marriage. Most marriage counselors are comfortable addressing and helping couples deal with these problems, but certainly there are many other common marital issues that can be addressed in counseling as well. 1. Remarriage and Blended Families After people have already been divorced once, they are more likely to be a little nervous about getting remarried. And according to statistics, rightly so. The divorce rates for second marriages are even higher than first marriages. And for couples who already have kids, blending two families can be complicated. Marriage counselors can assist couples in making a smoother transition and also overcoming obstacles and barriers to remarriage. 2. Family of Origin Problems In-laws can be more than...