Question-Marriage?

Question's which must be know marriage 

Marriage is a lifelong bond and not a social contract that a person can break or amend easily. Marriage is altogether a new sphere of life that brings along numerous responsibilities. So, a couple needs to understand and discuss certain points beforehand.

Premarital counselling helps partners improve their ability to communicate, set realistic expectations for marriage and develop conflict-resolution skills. In addition, premarital counselling can help couples establish a positive attitude about seeking help with their marriages down the road.

Keep in mind that you bring your own values, opinions and personal history into a relationship, and they might not always match your partner's. In addition, many people go into marriage believing it will fulfil their social, financial, sexual and emotional needs — and that's not always the case. By discussing differences and expectations before marriage, you and your partner can better understand and support each other during marriage. Early intervention is important because the risk of divorce is highest early in marriage.

Premarital counselling is a type of therapy that helps couples prepare for marriage. Premarital counselling can help ensure that you and your partner have a strong, healthy relationship — giving you a better chance for a stable and satisfying marriage. Premarital counselling can also help you identify weaknesses that could become bigger problems during marriage.

Premarital counselling helps couples improve their relationships before marriage. Through premarital counselling, couples are encouraged to discuss a wide range of important and intimate topics related to marriage, such as:

• Finances

• Communication

• Beliefs and values

• Roles in marriage

• Affection and sex

• Children and parenting

• Family relationships

• Decision making

• Dealing with anger

• Time spent together

Must know all these questions and their answer's 

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Written By- 

 Dr.Shweta singh

    Guest Lecturer,

   Dpt. of Applied Psychology,

   V.B.S.Purvanchal University

   Jaunpur,U.P.,INDIA 

     shweta_opsingh@rediffmail.com

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Love Marriage:Good Or Bad

Love Marriage :- Positive side 

Marriage is a lifetime commitment. A couple ties a knot in their traditional way, promising to spend the whole life with each other. Love marriage and arrange marriage have different pros and cons. For few love marriage is great and for few, arrange marriage is advantageous for the couple as well as the family. Everyone must be aware of the benefits of an arranged marriage but what about love marriage? If you are in love and want to know how a love marriage is good for your life, check out the benefits of this type of marriage.

Benefits of love marriage:

You know each other: As you are in love with each other, you know your partner well. By the time you decide to get married, you know the likes, dislikes, expectations and needs of your partner. Whereas in an arranged marriage, you do not know the person with whom you are planning to spend your whole life.

You choose: In a love marriage, you choose someone you like. There is no parental pressure (if they agree) to select a partner for lifetime. This is one of the benefit of love marriage. You select your life partner with your own will and wish.

There is an understanding before: While dating and trying to know each other, you two build an understanding. This bonding helps you become compatible with your partner. It also awakens you about the level of adjustment required after marriage. A benefit to prepare mentally as you know the partner very well.

Family : In an arranged marriage, you don't know your spouse well before tying the knot. Also the families have newly gelled with each other while performing this social duty. Whereas in a love marriage, you know each others family. You build a nice rapport with each others' family and this helps in bonding well with in-laws before marriage. You come to know about the family that will be yours forever. You can decide accordingly.

These are few benefits of love marriage. As mentioned earlier, it has few disadvantages also. For example, your partner can take you for granted etc. For a happy married life, you have to compromise a little, understand each other and more importantly value each others space.

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